Married With Separate Assets

Having represented hundreds of married couples, we have seen plenty of them present to us for a divorce with the proverbial separate bank accounts.  It seems there is a correlation between a separate bank account and a separate heart.

Money, as with sex and religion [and we would hasten to add, children], is one of the primary things that couples argue about and get divorced over.  Money, as the bible tells us, is indeed the root of all evil.

Even so, if evil, money is a necessary evil.  Here are some potential problems with couples that maintain separate bank accounts and assets:

1. Mistakenly separate property.  If a couple gets married and brings their separate accounts to the marriage, even without overly co-mingling the assets by creating a joint account, such property can eventually get co-mingled over time and become part of the marital estate.  An example of this would include where one spouse uses the funds from a separately titled account to pay marital bills.  When you enter into a marriage and desire to keep your separate property separate, you have to be certain to segregate the property.  Even when you do, us lawyers love to find ways to "invade" the separate property of the moneyed spouse and haul it into the marital estate.  If you are getting married but insisting on the maintenance of separate property, then you should consider executing a prenuptial agreement.
2. Separate property has greater exposure to creditors.  When you are sued by creditors or file for bankruptcy, joint assets are unavailable to satisfy the judgment creditor and the bankruptcy trustee.  Now be careful here; you cannot just go plunging your money into a joint account to avoid creditors.  That would be deemed a fraudulent transfer made to avoid creditors and such assets may be used to satisfy the creditors.
3. Administrative complication upon death.  If a married couple maintains separate checking accounts, then some administrative issues will arise in the event that a spouse dies.  For example, the surviving spouse may need to secure a death certificate prior to accessing the funds in the account, assuming that she was named as the power of attorney.  This is not inherently difficult to do but, do you want to be doing it amid the funeral and burial of your loved one.
4. Separate accounts do not encourage financial communication.  Finally, maintaining separate accounts does not foster open communication between spouses about their finances.  The other spouse is left to guess as to the net worth of the individual, the net worth of the marital estate.  One spouse may never know about any savings cushion unless asked.  The overall financial picture of the couple remains hidden from full view.  When it comes to finances, this is usually not a good thing in a marriage.

Maintaining separate assets is a tactic that most often comes from old habits dying hard.  We find that the older a couple is when they get married, the more likely one or both partners will maintain that separate checking account, or keep that one asset in their sole name, almost like a symbolic insurance policy.  But we have to ask, insurance for what.

Going "all in" with joint accounts and jointly titled assets is the better plan for the long term marriage.  This is especially true if the couple executes estate planning documents shortly after their nuptials.

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Preparing for a Second Marriage

Many factors affect whether a second marriage will last: the relative age and incomes of the partners, whether either party has children, cohabitation prior to the second nuptials, and the education level of the parties.

And, of course, how could we forget the personality of the ex-spouse; perhaps the most important factor of all.

According to statistics published by the National Institute of Health, approximately 15% of second marriages end within 3-years; and 23% end within 5-years.  Overall, however, the divorce rate for second marriages has drawn even with that of first marriages; about 40%.  Also, in its 2009 report Marital Events of Americans, the Census Bureau claims first marriages last, on average, about as long as second marriages: about 8-years.

Here are some things to think about, and some steps to consider, before tying the knot for the second time.

Prenuptial Agreement.
For those with assets, this document is a must.  To be enforceable, the prenuptial agreement largely depends on two things: a) full disclosure by both parties of all their respective assets; and b) legal representation of each party by separate lawyers.  If your partner does not want to sign such an agreement, then you should seriously consider cohabitation rather than marriage.  This is a harbinger of trouble in the event of a split.

Couples with only modest estates going into second marriages generally do not need the complication of a prenuptial agreement.  If a marital estate grows during the second marriage, that estate will be subject to an equitable property division in the event of divorce.

Solid Estate Planning.
Prior to a second marriage, assets may be transferred into a trust for the benefit of the owner's children.  Also, retirement asset rollovers (from a 401(k) plan into an IRA, for example) can operate to protect the new spouse with survivor benefits, or not, as the case may be.

A Qualified Terminable Interest Property trust (QTIP) typically provides for interest income going to a surviving (second) spouse, with the principle going to the settlor's children from her first marriage upon the death of the second spouse.

Children from a prior marriage can also be provided for using an Irrevocable Life Insurance Trust.  This way, the new spouse can be designated as the beneficiary on the person's retirement assets and the children are designated beneficiaries of the death benefit from the life insurance policy.

Another common practice is to create a separate trust to provide for the distribution of separate property to the children from the first marriages and to create a joint trust to provide for the distribution of the marital estate of the second marriage. 
Good Premarital Counseling.
One of the best things a couple can do prior to tying the second knot is to participate in joint counseling.  This should include religious counseling or premarital couples therapy, financial advice, and (separate) legal consultation.  Once separate legal counsel is received, the couple can certainly compare notes in order to get on the same page.

Going into a second marriage with your eyes open improves the chances of a successful nuptials.  When selecting an attorney to assist you with the necessary planning, find one that truly listens to your expressed wishes and pays close attention to the characteristics of your estate.

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Proposed Divorce Legislation Distinguishes Marital From Separate Property

Two new bills pending in the Michigan legislature attempt to address a long-perceived problem in Michigan family law: how to classify property [separate or marital] in a divorce proceeding.  This legislative proposal has judges and divorce attorneys up in arms.

The tie-barred bills, 4672 and 4673, introduced by Livonia Republican John Walsh, propose standards for the division of marital property, and comingled marital and separate property; create a presumption of non-division for separate property; and revises the procedures by which a family court could "invade" one spouse's separate property and award it to the other spouse.

In Michigan, a family court judge's power to apportion property in a divorce comes strictly from statutes; a confusing patchwork of four separate statutes, to be precise.  Because of this legislative patchwork, a significant body of common law has developed over the past 30-years addressing the classification and division of property.

Although every divorce case is decided on its own merit, the present state of divorce law allows the distinct possibility, if sufficent and compelling factors are proven, for the invasion of separate property.  The new legislation is largely viewed as making such an invasion more difficult, if not impossible.

Birmingham divorce attorney James P. Cunningham summarized the problem in a 2008 Michigan Bar Journal article, calling for legislation to "fill the gap" between the cases.  Cunningham was on the floor of the house in Lansing last week to testify as an expert about the need for this legislation and, presumably, to endorse the content of Walsh's bills.

So why such a fuss from the family court bench and bar?  First, they contend that Walsh is fast-tracking the legislation without input from their professional organizations.  Second, these groups also assert the proposed measures are grossly unfair to the non-propertied spouse.

When cornered by a reporter at the Capitol last week, a lobbist for the bills denied they were being fast-tracked but wryly noted that the family court bar was a veritable "graveyard" for good ideas.

Is this going to be a case of the rich getting richer?  The so-called "missionaries for the family" certainly think so and are determined to quash the measures; you should have seen the chatter about these bills appearing on the State Bar of Michigan's Family Law listserve...

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